...random experiences, observations and thoughts of my daily life as mommy...past journeys and dreams of journeys yet to be taken creating my life story as i go...


Thursday, January 14, 2010

disneyland part 1

i feel badly posting on disneyland with all the tragedy in haiti but i guess you help your community and the world where you can and life goes on...
here is sea with skye and ayva right after finding out she was at disneyland...
she was afraid of the characters for the most part...here is auntie brina showing her the chipmunk is ok...she thought this was alvin, simon or theodore...oh wait she told me it can't be alvin cuz he has a hat...just now she asked me looking at this photo if this was really a "chickmunk or a puhson (person) inside a costume because he didn't talk..." i hate that she is figuring so much out...
first we rode on a merry-go-round
story loved the horsies and skye wanted to hold his hand...
next we rode dumbo...story loves elephants...this was one of his first sounds...
uncle matthew and sea rode behind us...
story kissing the elephants nose afterwards...
next the tea cups though i don't like to get dizzy so i didn't go...uncle matthew took skye and sea..they are in the turquoise one and went 3X as fast as everyone else so i'm REALLY glad i didn't go...
next the cousins, uncle matthew and auntie michelle all went on the matterhorn...i kept waiting to see them come past to get a photo of sea on her first "roller coaster" of sorts though it isn't too scary and must have turned to give story a lollipop and missed them...so auntie michelle took the cousins to get their faces painted...
here is story getting shy about getting his face painted...
sea hugging skye "too tight"...
and then i got a picture of all the cousins with their face paintings...ayva was really hamming it up...
namenee laughing about something (getting her face painted?)...sea hanging out with poppy and uncle matthew...
i love this photo breezy took of me with sea...i think we even look a little alike...
next we drove cars (they were on a track)...sea and poppy were in front of us...
skye drove me and story in the next car...
uncle matthew and auntie breezy were behind us...
story loved it...thought it was hilarious when we crashed, stalled, restarted, sped up...
skye took her driving very seriously...asked if we were going the speed limit (65?) yet...i think the sign was supposed to be what highway we were on...
preparing for her next curve...
matt and breezy behind us...
sun was setting...bright but fun...about to crash...did i mention i was doing the pedal?
matt making story laugh...
again...there is the matterhorn behind them...
more laughing...
skye wanted to go on space mountain...i really thought sea wouldn't be tall enough to go on it so i said "sure, let's go"...i was terrified of this rollercoaster even when i went on it (my first) at like 16 or something...
guess what...she was just tall enough...
and rode on it without screaming or crying...we just built it up to be "fast but not scary"...she was more afraid of the matterhorn cuz there was a monster in it...didn't like how the entire ride was pitch dark but she had fun...
i would have bought this professional photo on display that i took a blurry photo of but sea was covering her eyes so i couldn't see her...
sea and skye look a little dazed afterwards...and to think sea was terrified of the kiddy ride behind her just a few years ago...
finally story got some mickey ears...
these photos continue to part 2 here...we had a fun day!

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

disneyland part 2

no you didn't miss something...i was uploading 60+ of 300 photos i took yesterday and realized i was going to have to do two posts...so the first half will come later...we were invited to join sea's grandma namenee at disneyland to celebrate her birthday...with manuel's brother matthew and fiancee breezy (sabrina), manuel's sister michelle and her cousins skye (almost 7) and avya (4), grandpa (poppy)...so we got cheaper tickets on craigslist and headed 1.5 hours north to anaheim...this was half-way in to our day...
sea, story, me and skye in front of the castle
ayva, sea, skye and story waiting to see tinkerbell...
some fairy...they were all nervous to be with her...
story was playing shy with tinkerbell in the background...
sea was hiding behind skye to meet her...
you can see even though skye and ayva stood with her they were nervous...
it's a small world right before they lit it...
sea and story waiting to meet some princesses...(daddy made their shirts for xmas...sea drew the butterfly on her shirt and manuel made the shark and "story" on his)...
some princess...again, nervous...
story waiting with poppy...
another princess...
sea asked her why she always wears the same dress (?!)...
it's a small world with lights...
auntie breezy and sea...
inside it's a small world...sea wearing story's ears riding with namenee...
matt and bree..
namenee and poppy...
michelle was behind the camera most of the day...
sea enjoying the music and colorful scenes...
turning to look at me...
mickey was the only character they really knew...story had a melt down and sea was clinging to my leg trying to hide...funny, story is laughing and pointing looking at this photo while sitting on my lap right now...
sea still nervous with auntie breezy...
sea snuggling up to her cousin skye with namenee...
michelle and ayva kissing...
i like it better in this lighting but it was too blurry with the movement and low light...
watching the parade...very animated, high energy, loud music, lots of dancing...
story wasn't sure what he thought of the parade...
sea watching the floats go by...

one of the characters invited sea to go walk in the parade...she was proud but nervous...
story finally crashed as the park was closing...
and finally sea rushing to collect confetti thrown during the parade before the millions of cleaners swept and vacuumed them up...we had a super fun day...hope to get the first half up!

Saturday, January 9, 2010

friday fragments, random xmas remnants and great youtube music

we haven't taken down our tree...or our lights or any decorations for that matter...only one other house on the block still turns their outdoor lights on but we like to be a little rebellious that way and keep the spirit going...i figure we will take everything down this weekend. i decided since i haven't blogged about xmas (or new years or thanksgiving for that matter!) i better blog about remnants of xmas...so these were some of the last shots on my camera roll. that reminded me that i just missed friday and friday fragments...a blogger named mrs. 4444's does this every week.. (i started uploading these late last night)...my friend and fellow blogger kristen always plays along and writes fun random things all compiled together on friday and i always mean to do the same and friday is gone by the time i get around to it...so here is my version anyway, a day late...my husband manuel has really been into retro 80's stuff lately...i read somewhere trends cycle back every 30 years or so and since the 70's hippy stuff was just in i figure we don't have long to go before fluorescents and bad super perms, etc. make their way back in...i should look for some old school junior high and high school photos to go along with this idea...but for now, manuel picked up an atari and here he is playing pac man with sea...
sea is left-handed...manuel is also (ambidextrous) and he mentioned to me yesterday he is going to encourage both children to use both hands so they can be, too...here she is making a cat with very large ears (i mistook it for a bunny)...she told me it was a daddy cat...
here is one of our camellia bushes out front with xmas lights...you can see the icycles hanging on our roof (we d0n't ever get real ones here in san diego...in fact, my cousin katie just returned to several feet of snow in michigan while it was in the EIGHTIES here yesterday...i had to change the children into short-sleeved shirts)...story is helping me water...
this particular bush has lots of buds but doesn't get enough light to have them bloom...here is one bloom that was in a random place that got just enough light...
camellias remind me of my dad and virginia...there were a lot of them near the house where he grew up and my mom always exclaimed over them...we would take walks to find and notice them along with all the TREES...my mom was from the northwest and couldn't believe how we didn't have all the green and trees like they did (rain and humidity help that so i'll take our plentiful sun and just travel to these places)...i love hibiscus flowers...tomato red in particular...this one is growing out front and reminds me how tropical it is here this time of year...
sea and story still working in the yard...another hibiscus flower...
these multi-colored daisy type ground cover are in little cut outs in the bricks between the sidewalk and our yard...i want to plant them all over our steep hill behind our house along with multi-colored and textured ice plant...hoping to get our winter garden in this weekend...adding lots of broccoli, kale, chard, arugula, spinach...
sea started making her own ornaments yesterday...drew this circle, cut it out and poked it on a branch...the one beneath it was from an ornament-making coop preschool class we hosted...i think i still haven't posted about that...i guess this post could be called "what i haven't yet blogged about"...
oh, so i'm at the end of my photos...i could write about many random things but in the spirit of staying in the present (cuz i always idealize i'll blog about the past and don't get there and then just feel guilty and sad and unfulfilled) i will blog about last night and leave you with some great youtube videos to look up...staying with the spirit of the 80's many of them are from that era when manuel and i were both quite dramatic and really into dramatic music...

yesterday i took sea and story to a hullabaloo kid's concert (they describe themselves as "farm-fresh, free-range, organic kid-folk in a genre filled with musical Twinkies and Ding-Dongs")...they played lots of the kid's favorite songs like "twinkle twinkle" (story sings this whenever he sees a star) and "you are my sunshine" (there is a great version of this by johnny cash i used to play a lot right before my dad died)...and the kids danced around and jumped on the bouncy floor of a gymnastics gym...tried to get video but they were going in opposite directions...

anyway, they both ended up getting sick and going to bed early...so manuel and i had a lot of time to hang out...we worked on projects and cleaning and organizing and made some new year's resolutions like maybe to do yoga together once a week and i'll go on a bike ride with him at least one morning a week while he pulls the kids in a trailer...but the main thing that stuck out from yesterday and late last night was listening to some great youtube music together...going back in the day and finding some new bands, too...so here is my list of just a few songs we played over and over that you should check out:

ian mccullock "candleland" (the version we watched has now been blocked)
til tuesday "coming up close" (check out 80's hair)
u2 & mary j blige "one" (video no longer available)
yo la tengo "little eyes" (used to sing this to sea right before she went to bed)
the airborne toxic event "sometime around midnight" (their video also not available but i'm putting a differt one on)

west indian girl "hollywood"
bon jovi "you want to make a memory" (we tried several times but couldn't get this last night)
dj disse "walk on the wild side"
the killers "all these things that i've done"
gay dad "black ghost"
luna @ malibu love next
echo & the bunnymen "i think i need it too"
dean & britta "words you used to say"
u2 "where the streets have no name" at slane castle
imogen heap "hide and seek"
the magnetic fields "with whom to dance?"
u2 "the wanderer" tribute to cash
u2 "all i want is you" live milan
audioslave "i am the highway"
fleet foxes "ragged wood"
my morning jacket on letterman june 8 2006 (playing with the boston pops)
findlay brown "come home"
u2 40 live from red rocks (really old school)

ok my hands are tired from linking...check out the fragments and join in...and enjoy the music!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

2009 holiday card and letter

this is the 2009 holiday card we sent out this year

then we took this next picture right after our 2008 xmas (cards were already sent) before we took down our tree in january of 2009...i thought it was so cute (especially with story only 10 months old wearing "my first christmas") i enclosed it in this year's card...

then i had sea make some of her drawings for most people (i had trouble letting go of some of them)...and i got the idea to ask her what xmas meant to her and enclosed this interview:

"I sometimes think about xmas trees…I like moose that are for xmas…a deer that’s for xmas…I like to eat xmas dinner…some ravioli and um..um…some candy cones and…xmas lights on a house…and uh uh those little things that we hang up on the door? It looks like a circle like when we drive by a house…(thinking about other things)…a deep dark forest when it is dark outside when it is night time and it is snowing…mommy? Why we can’t have snow here? Snow is part of xmas! I would love xmas snow mans…I like wearing xmas clothes for xmas…a xmas shirt and xmas hat…I think you forgot about xmas bear and santa claus…he brings presents to people and then what? You might guess…who is behind my back? Look! And who else, a different kind of santa…(later, just at bedtime)…mommy, isn’t my xmas tree beautiful? I love it SO much…it is so beautiful…you can’t even believe…I just want to watch it a little bit more…"

finally, here is our xmas letter:

"SEAsons greetings 2009
dear friends and family,
this may be one of the first holiday letters to get out before the holidays! It is also the first year in a long time that we don’t have major news (2002 engaged, 2003 married, 2004 pregnant/honeymoon, 2005 sea born, 2006 my dad died, 2007 pregnant, 2008 story born)…I will move on to our usual format…what we’ve been up to, what we hope to be up to, and a section all about sea and story.
2009 highlights
reading back over last year’s letter it is hard to believe story wasn’t even walking yet…I really have my hands full chasing sea and story but am enjoying every minute…we have continued with the co-op preschool (geared towards sea’s age but all the younger siblings and mommies attend, too) and I love it so much…typically we have a welcome song, stretching, crafts, stories, lessons and yummy potluck lunch…I have lifelong friends and am considering home schooling…we spend the rest of our days of the week at playgroups, play dates, playing at the park, music class, outdoor adventure class, leading out in sabbath school, planting and replanting in our garden, story time at the library, birthday parties, farmer’s market, the beach, visiting family and friends…
in february we celebrated daddy (2/12) and mommy’s (2/15) birthdays with a potluck brunch at our new home…then a couple weeks later we celebrated story’s 1st birthday (2/27). In march we started going to the beach…this year our last beach day was oct 17 so we are really lucky to have such sunny weather most of the year.
in april we made bunny ears as a craft in preschool and then had an egg hunt…easter weekend we attended manuel’s 20th high school reunion from bakersfield academy (he graduated from monterey)…it was nice to be reacquainted with lots of friends…we ate together at p.f. changes, attended a program at the school, and shared ice cream at dewars…we saw manuel’s folks on the way home and decorated/hid/found more eggs…two weeks later we were off to the monterey bay academy h.s. reunion which included more friends, a bonfire on the beach, church/potluck at school, dinner at chaminade and then brunch and swimming the next morning…this is where sea first taught herself to swim (swam under water holding her breath)…we both love santa cruz…
in may we went on a family church retreat to the summer camp I attended many years as a child; pine springs ranch. It was fun to eat in the caf, sing songs by the fire, hike, and show the children cabins mommy stayed in when she was little. the following week we made a vacation out of tony and kasha’s wedding…may 20 we flew in to honolulu and headed straight for waikiki beach…we had dinner with jared, colleen, jolie and rad and spent the night at their house. the next day we went to a local sandwich shop on the u of hawaii campus (love doing local stuff) and then on 5/22 we flew in to maui…we stayed with several couples for 5 days in a huge house right on the water in wailea (remote, exclusive resort area)…sea and story were both in the wedding…as uncooperative as you could imagine…we went snorkeling in our back yard, saw sea turtles, went to a hula dance (sea got right up on stage and jumped right in)…then 5/27 off to kaanapali for a week. we stayed at the papakea (individually owned condos) where we crashed hotel waterslides and pools, frequented a farmer’s market with veggie food, walked everywhere and later met up with jeana and her family…even her new little baby…we hung out at their locals beach in kihea…sea and story stood up on a surf board and later we had dinner with her family…
in june we attended ally’s h.s. reunion, flew kites at seaport village, hosted several “water play” and potluck brunch preschools and then 6/28 attended neville and sharon’s wedding (another excuse to stay at the chaminade…eat the amazing brunch) in santa cruz.
we spent the fourth of july locally…bbq at bruno and anna’s house on the beach in coronado and watched fireworks overlooking the bay and downtown…this was the first year sea was afraid…7/26 we had sea’s annual birthday party at la jolla shores beach…over 100 people came… it was a lot of fun…lots of kids, food, sand toys, cake…put sunday july 25 on your calendar if you want to attend this next one…we had some doves lay eggs and watched them hatch and fly away right outside of sea’s window…we spent the rest of the summer in a routine that involved every saturday at coronado beach and every sunday at la jolla…had a beach bonfire…
in september I took a road trip with the kids to attend auntie missy’s baby shower in sacramento…hit split pea soup, stayed at j.d.’s and the hensels, played guitar and sang songs together, spaghetti factory with becki and john and then off for a couple days in the napa valley…stayed at brandie’s and played with her three, noelle’s three plus mine meant eight children under 8…lunch with the trivetts, hit giugnis, model bakery, napa valley roasting company and saw pete n and jason l on the way out…more friends to visit there on our next trip…
in october we went to several pumpkin patches, took the kids to their first concert (U2 at the rose bowl…viewed live on youtube), and had a halloween-themed preschool before driving back up north to welcome our new cousin, baby meadow (yes, we have cousins named skye and ayva rain as well…they stayed with the family theme) born oct 28. we took the kids trick-or-treating while we were there…story wore sea’s old monkey costume and sea was a giant bright yellow felt banana that mommy was sewing on the drive up…fall included trips to the children’s museum, waldorf fall festival…in november I went to auntie carolyn’s bridal shower at café sevilla (bummed we will miss her wedding in hawaii next month)…were blessed to have her live with us briefly… manuel was able to spend a few days in manhattan with travis who is there shooting the show “white collar”…I hosted a fall themed/thanksgiving preschool (sea made her first apple pie), and the co-op families got together for our second annual thanksgiving meal the night before the holiday…then off to uncle dave’s amazing spread the day of…sea and story loved playing with chloe and seven…we spent the weekend with namenee and poppy and again the cousins had a blast…december is flying by…we have our tree and xmas lights up…participated in a holiday card swap and received cards from around the world (australia was sea’s fav)…made ornaments in preschool…attended several parties…we will celebrate xmas eve in our home with my mom, sister and maybe hayno and then xmas and the weekend in ventura with namenee, poppy and hopefully the cousins…I have decided to be a full-time mommy until story is in kindergarten and then I will go back to teaching. I keep way too busy with all aforementioned activities; particularly the coop preschool. manuel continues to work for the county of san diego as a public defender. he has been at the el cajon branch for a little while now and anticipates possibly being transferred back downtown.last year as I lamented the loss of our dear friend, lorie and appreciating those closest to you I had no idea we would lose several more people in our lives…the jacobsons, pullens and chings (14 died including their children in the montana plane crash)…marci roomed with amy at puc…they were all in their 30’s and younger…my aunt daisy…and then most recently manuel’s close friend david crawford who left behind his wife daphne and daughter sadie who is sea’s age…we hope to stay better in touch this year and possibly visit many more friends…portland and sacramento are both on our horizon…
we expect our family vacation this next year to be on the east coast…visiting relatives, swimming, skiing and sailing on the rappahannock river and then heading to new york to visit several friends there and just have fun in a big city…my 20th high school reunion will be sometime this next summer…I am going to be on the planning committee…we will spend too much time worrying about sea heading off to kindergarten next fall…we have several great school options but still can’t believe she will be old enough to leave home…hope to attend mommy-and-me waldorf preschool with story or continue co-op preschool for the younger siblings…my specific goals for 2010 include maintaining our garden, taking regular walks, planning and creating more healthy meals, updating my blog while balancing LIFE (see the next topic for details), exposing the children to more art, music, outdoor play, making more time to read (and maybe becoming active in a book club I joined), teaching sea piano and/or violin, and keeping in touch with and getting together with family and friends…I’m sure I’m forgetting several things…I’m really starting to get in to the “blogging world” as a wonderful way to combine my love for writing, photography, and noticing the minutia of my daily life as mommy…I had about 140 posts from 2009…more than double last year…my goal is to post 2 or 3 times a week so if you want to know what we are up to check it out: http://mommysjourney.blogspot.com/…I’ve made some wonderful friends following other blogs…just hope to balance writing about life with living it…sea and story are definitely interacting more these days…they especially love pushing each other on a little car, playing “tag” and running/climbing after each other, making “chin-ee-chins” (forts out of blankets), drawing/coloring/painting, role-playing with stuffed animals, building and breaking down houses and cities, and singing/dancing to music…they both love the outdoors…yards, playgrounds and the BEACH…right now story is fascinated by his “furry shark” pjs and never wants to take them off…he likes “woof-woofs,” “kee-kee’s” (kitties), “choo-choo’s” and most recently a chirping cricket in the bricks of our fireplace…he’ll show it to all visitors and his animals. He just started role-playing (carrying a baby, trying to feed/rock etc.). sea’s most recent interest is drawing. check out my blog for examples…she likes to draw fairy kitties, her friends and family, and “letters’ though we are not pushing any academics…I want her to play and enjoy youth while she can! they both love books, stories…sea will “read” leonardo the terrible monster” out loud to anyone who will listen…she is a great narrator with inflections in her voice, pauses, different voices and has an amazing memory for the details. both children are very social and love to interact with and engage people…please update us with any address, phone or e-mail changes. we love and miss all of you so keep us updated on your lives. finally, we are both fairly active on facebook so you can keep up with us there…come visit or we may visit you!p.s. enclosed photo card photos taken by www.julieprichard.com; 2008 xmas photo taken by self-timer, artwork by sea…"

i know it is way past xmas now but i thought this would give readers a better idea about our life...and i hope to post a few photos and memorable moments from our xmas celebrations...new years brunch...baby shower i hosted this weekend...new year's resolutions...i have a cousin in town who has never been to california so i'll be driving her all over the next few days but hope to get caught up soon! happy new year! hope you are having a productive, happy and meaningful first week of 2010!